The above video was taken exactly 1 week before dad's 5th heart attack that took away his life. We were all so optimistic for his scheduled operation at IJN (institute Jantung Negara) and made him walk so that he can be independent again. but little did we know that he also died due to being heartbroken. Well, just 1 week before his trip from Penang to KL, he and mum had a big fight since he accused mum of having an affair and never believed that HIS SISTER was the culprit, having an affair with a married man. That someone who told him ought to be shot! Here is a sick man with 6 diseases, staying in a nursing home that we paid for monthly, and feeling abandoned and mistreated at times, believed it was mum who had the affair when she went to Glory Days to give him his fruits.
Well, since he was not permitted to go back home, I guess he in his senility, had the wrong impression and idea that his wife is cheating on him, which was totally untrue. Dad gave up the will to live since he apparently felt that he was a burden to us and his favorite daughter, did not come out to take care of him in the final leg of his scheduled surgery. Karen has many times told him, "Daddy, I will take care of you in your old age!" But the reality is that she flew to England to do her Ph.D. that lasted 5 years from 3 years. Never promise your parent if you could not fulfill his last wishes to see his favorite daughter by his side at his dying bed. Days before his death, dad was choosing the words of his obituary from a newspaper and wanted the same words to be printed.
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